The Handsome "Performance"

Ann Cheng
2 days ago
1 min read

· His habit of appearing perfectly groomed and gentlemanly after a period of silence is a sign of compensatory behavior. He knows he has failed you by disappearing, so he "over-performs" physically to win back your favor and re-establish his "perfect" image without having to actually apologize or change his communication habits.

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